Jesus said a lot about prayer, and He did a lot of praying. In His sermon on the mount He said,
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.”
Then Jesus used this analogy, “Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!” Matthew 7:7-11
God promises to give good things to his children when they ask. But God doesn’t say that He gives His children precisely what they ask Him for.
An example for us is shown in Genesis 17. Abraham was promised a child who was to be the seed of many nations. Abraham fathered Ishmael by Sarah's servant because of his impatience. He asked God, “If only Ishmael might live under your blessing!” In other words, Abraham asked God to let Ishmael be the chosen seed, which was not God's plan. God had already told Abraham that his wife Sarah would conceive and bear a son. So God said "No," and this is God's response.
”But as for Ishmael, I have heard you; behold, I have blessed him and will make him fruitful and multiply him greatly. He shall father twelve princes, and I will make him into a great nation.”
Abraham had asked God in prayer for Ishmael to be the son of promise. But God explicitly said “No.”
Now, God might have just left it at that, gone on, and done with Ishmael whatever he was going to do. Instead, he takes pains to say, “I have heard you."
Basically I believe He was saying, you have asked me to bless Ishmael, and I will bless him, and although I’m not going to do it the way you asked, "I want you to know that I’m doing it because I heard you.”
Now, what we learn from this encounter speaks clearly to those times when God says “no" to our prayers, Even when He says no to the specific intention of our prayer, it does not mean that He didn't hear or care, and it doesn't mean that there will not be, or has not been an answer in response to the prayer.
And whatever answers we receive must be good, because our Father is good.
Deuteronomy 7:9
Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments.
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Are you looking out the window, and seeing nothing there?
Are you waiting for a miracle to reach you from somewhere?
Are you longing for a sweet release,
or wishing for some inner peace,
or praying for the pain to cease?
Child,
don’t let those anxious thoughts break through.
Let God’s sweet peace fall over you
as you go to Him in prayer.
Know He holds you in His care,
and His answer will be there.
Love Diane